THE PAIN OF BECOMING GREAT OR SUCCSESSFUL WITH MOMMY PDJ
- ojogwujustinaewele
- Jul 24
- 20 min read

Today, I want to discuss the challenges involved in achieving greatness or success. Let me emphasize, dear child of God, that success is always accompanied by pain. It involves inconvenience, struggle, a journey, and a process. If there is any success without these elements, it simply doesn't exist. Whether in the realm of light or darkness, every success in life demands a price. The real question is, are you prepared for your success to bring you pain? Are you ready for your greatness to cause inconvenience? Are you willing to undergo the process required for success? Are you prepared to embark on the journey to becoming a great individual? That's why I'm reaching out to those who feel overwhelmed and believe their path isn't leading to success, unaware that it might actually be the key to achieving it. Success isn't accidental or a matter of luck; it doesn't suddenly elevate you. There is a sacrificial aspect of life that leads to success. Praise be to Jesus. I trust you have your Bible with you. Let's read from Genesis. We don't need to go anywhere else; let's start from the beginning. Praise be to Jesus. We'll begin with Genesis chapter one to observe what God did before embarking on His journey to greatness. Then we'll pause there, and I'll provide you with key points to help you. If you truly aspire to greatness and wish to break barriers, if you genuinely want to make a change and have an impact, if you aim to be a purposeful woman or a man of influence, it will be a decision to make at the end of this service. But let me tell you, there is no better choice than to go through this process. Praise be to Jesus.
Genesis chapter 1, starting at verse one, states, "In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth. The earth was formless and void, with darkness over the watery depths, and the Spirit of God hovered over the waters. God declared, 'Let there be light,' and light appeared." This illustrates that God is the creator of everything, including us. Nothing exists outside of His creation. When God embarked on His journey of creation, He encountered a formless and empty situation, not aligning with His vision. Despite the darkness, God knew light was needed. Though the earth was dysfunctional, He intended for it to function. As believers, our path to success is not effortlessly laid out like a comfortable mattress. It requires effort and perseverance. Even God, the universe's creator, had to actively bring about His vision through declarations. Similarly, achieving greatness requires effort on our part. I address those who mistakenly believe that invoking the name of Jesus Christ will effortlessly grant all desires. The name of Jesus is powerful for battles, not for materializing possessions out of thin air. It signifies that we must engage in spiritual warfare. If you're not prepared to fight for your goals, it's time to awaken and embrace change. The name of Jesus is a strong tower, offering refuge and enlightenment. If you've considered giving up, remember that success is attainable if you know the path and choose to follow it. I'm here to clarify the truth about success, not to sugarcoat scripture. Those at the top enjoy a broader perspective and advantages. Pray this prayer: "Oh God, release upon me the mindset of success and transformation as this teaching continues. Let the mindset of greatness be poured upon me in the name of Jesus Christ." Say amen and take your seat.
The journey of life is a struggle, beginning with the cry of birth. Life starts with pain, not joy, and success without effort is an illusion. Even Jesus encountered difficulties from birth, pursued by Herod, and lived in modest circumstances. Achieving success requires perseverance and acknowledging that life is inherently challenging. Christians are often misled to believe that faith alone ensures an easy life, but genuine success demands effort and spiritual understanding.
To achieve greatness, one must possess spiritual knowledge. Success appears spiritually before it manifests physically. A spiritual person knows how to influence God's actions, as Solomon and David did through sacrifice and loyalty. Jesus, despite being divine, depended on God for his proclamation. Understanding how to reach God is essential, as mere presence doesn't guarantee favor. Success isn't solely about strategy; it's about the spiritual backing you have. God is a God of principles, not magic. Understanding these truths aids in navigating life's challenges and achieving true success.
Praise be to Jesus. In Daniel chapter 9, starting from verse two, it is mentioned that in the first year of his reign, Daniel understood through the scriptures the number of years specified by the word of the Lord to Jeremiah the prophet, that Jerusalem would lie desolate for 70 years. Daniel then turned to the Lord God, seeking Him through prayer and supplication, accompanied by fasting, sackcloth, and ashes. He prayed and confessed to the Lord, acknowledging, "O Lord, the great and awesome God, who keeps His covenant and mercy with those who love Him and keep His commandments, we have sinned, committed iniquity, acted wickedly, and rebelled by turning away from Your precepts and judgments." What did he do? Daniel, an Israelite taken captive in Babylon, knew of the prophecy made by Jeremiah. Jeremiah had warned the Israelites that due to their wickedness, rebellion, and misuse of God's word, they would face 70 years of captivity. Daniel and the Hebrew youths were among those taken from Israel. Yet, in captivity, Daniel knew how to reach out to God through prayer and supplication, acknowledging their sins and altering the precepts and order God had given them, which led to their calamity. He didn't just pray; he engaged in supplication, fasting, sackcloth, and ashes. He combined all necessary elements to seek God's mercy. How do you approach God to change your situation? What is the strategy? You cannot rely solely on prayer and fasting if they haven't brought change. Wisdom suggests altering your approach if it isn't effective.
The people of Nineveh were notorious sinners, a dreadful nation. Even a prophet wished for their demise. Jonah, the prophet, despised Nineveh's wickedness so much that he desired their death. He refused to preach the gospel for their repentance. Even when he did go to encourage their repentance, he waited to see if God would refrain from forgiving them. However, the wisdom of the people was evident as everyone in Nineveh, from the greatest to the least, including animals and crops, donned sackcloth. They only heard that God was displeased with them. Without even asking what they had done wrong, they humbled themselves and pleaded for mercy. The prophet, sent to deliver this message, was furious. He questioned God, saying, "How dare you, God? I knew you would forgive these people." Perhaps these people had harmed him or hindered his calling, fueling his anger and bitterness, leading him to resent God for forgiving them. Yet, he didn't realize that their plea for mercy was something God couldn't ignore. God even addressed Jonah's anger, which was so intense that he refused to drink water or seek shelter. He sat in the scorching sun until God provided a tree for shade, which made him happy. When God then caused the tree to wither, Jonah was angry again. God explained, "You are upset over a tree. If you care for a tree that provides you shelter, how much more should I care for these people I created, who humbled themselves with sackcloth and ashes?" They didn't rely on their status or integrity but sacrificed for a relationship with God. God told Jonah, "If you wish to die, then do so, but I won't change my mind because these people have reached my heart." Have you touched the heart of God? Once you do, life won't remain the same. It's impossible. Wake up. Every time you fast, remember it's easy for you. Some of you fast because you lack ample food, using fasting as wisdom. God knows this. If your fasting was truly transformative, it would have made a difference. Perhaps you need to sacrifice financially, yet you treat your bank account like an idol. When you hear about giving, you think it's just another test. You cling to what's easy and cheap, yet ineffective. Your spiritual knowledge should guide you.
How to maintain your connection to the grace that influences your life. Spiritual knowledge is essential. To stay connected to any grace that brings change and transformation, you need understanding, as your success depends on this connection. You might not realize it. If you disconnect, life's problems will make you see the necessity of staying connected, because without grace, disgrace follows. Every person created by God needs a protective covering. Without a godly covering, you might end up with a negative influence, such as witchcraft or a demonic presence. The belief that you don't need grace is why you haven't achieved significant success. A person who cannot submit to others will not have others submit to them. Failing to connect and stay with grace leads to life's challenges overwhelming you. Many of you experienced instability before joining this ministry, unsure of your life's direction. Your life was more chaotic than your confusion. But upon joining, you gained clarity and began to flourish. As a child of God, spirituality demands that grace guides you. How do we know this? Abraham couldn't thrive until God entered his life. Even then, since the earthly realm requires a physical counterpart, Melchizedek became his spiritual father. How do we know this? Abraham gave him a tithe of all he had gained. He didn't need to deliver it elsewhere because he was already connected to a supernatural God. He needed an earthly figure to receive his offering. When he gave it to Melchizedek, the Bible notes that Abraham's life transformed from that point on, and he was no longer the same man who left his father's house.
I feel sorry for those of you who are so arrogant, so self-absorbed, and unable to remain connected with grace because you believe you don't need it. Who are you to claim you don't need the system God created? A system established by God Himself. Then you suddenly grow up and decide you don't need it. It's hidden pride and mental confusion that threaten your salvation. Remember, for Samuel to exist, there must be an Eli. When Eli's ministry began to falter, God chose Eli's spiritual son. When God called the spiritual son, "Samuel, Samuel," he heard the voice but didn't know how to respond until a father guided him. When you hear the voice again, say, "Speak, for I hear you." Without that guidance, I assure you, Samuel would never have become a great prophet. You need someone to guide your way. You need a pathfinder. Unless you don't understand spirituality, if you do, you'll recognize those who come for a season and those who come and stay. Some people are seasonal. Prophet Kevin told me this. She says, "My daughter, there are three kinds of grace. When I go to her, I don't know how to preach or talk; I only listen. You don't stand by grace to speak; you stand by grace to listen. There is seasonal grace. It can pass through your life just to prepare you for that season. When that season ends, it will vanish." He said, "Secondly, there is a grace that imparts lessons. You're not there to make friends; you're there to learn. This grace may come with hardship, chastisement, rebuke, and discipline." He said, "That grace teaches you the path to fulfill your destiny." He said, "Then there is a grace that remains forever, a grace you continually drink from because it covers you. It is the grace that announces you." You say it is that grace that announces you.
When Jesus encountered John the Baptist, John recognized Him as the Son of God and felt unworthy to baptize Him. However, Jesus insisted, allowing grace to be revealed. John had a special connection with heaven, which enabled him to baptize Jesus, leading to divine acknowledgment. This event highlights the significance of grace and spiritual awareness. Esau's story shows how ignoring spiritual matters can result in losing one's destiny. Ananias, though not well-known, was chosen by Jesus to transform Paul, demonstrating the great potential of God's servants. The message stresses the importance of recognizing genuine spiritual leaders and being attuned to their guidance. Achieving success requires a conscious decision, and understanding the role of grace and spiritual authority is vital.
How many of you are part of my vision? When we established this church, you contributed, and now we're expanding to two branches. I've received substantial support from you, and I am grateful. A man of God becomes truly significant to you when you give something meaningful to them. Many see me as their pastor, but not yet as their prophet. A pastor teaches, guides, and supports you, while a prophet receives your support for their mission.
Jesus taught us to serve not just with words but with actions and resources. Effective planning has allowed us to progress without imposing financial burdens on you. To truly connect with a prophet, you must contribute to their mission. Isaac required Esau and Jacob to bring him offerings before blessing them. Similarly, blessings often require sacrifice. Some of you enjoy the benefits of this ministry without giving back, which limits your blessings.
In the book of Genesis, God asked Cain and Abel to present sacrifices. Abel's genuine offering was accepted, whereas Cain's was not. True blessings arise from meaningful sacrifices. Many have received blessings here without reciprocating. To receive blessings, it is important to honor your spiritual leaders. Jesus healed ten lepers, but only one returned to express gratitude and was made whole. Gratitude and acknowledgment of spiritual principles lead to complete blessings. Decide today whether to embrace the sacrifices needed for success or stay stagnant.
Number three of spiritual knowledge: Your secret altar. What is the secret altar between you and God? Child of God, in understanding spirituality, what is the secret altar between you and God? Do you realize that many of you don't have it? You might not even be aware. You might think I'm referring to prayer, like saying, "Mama, my secret altar is that I pray for an hour every day as you instructed on Wednesday." Child of God, that's not what I meant. Every true child of God must have something that fosters their spiritual growth and progress. Without it, change won't occur. Remember the three things I have taught you. In the Bible, there were people God instructed not to do certain things, and as long as they refrained, it remained a secret. Are you aware of that? For instance, God instructed the Israelites not to worship other gods or create graven images. While Egypt could make idols, Israel was both spiritually and physically forbidden from doing so. If they ever made anything an idol, their enemies would overpower them. This was the secret when Balaam and Balak attempted to curse the Israelites, but the curse couldn't touch them. Balaam then advised the king about their secret covenant with God, suggesting that if they could be led to sin against their God, it would weaken them. Their God had forbidden them from marrying outsiders or mingling with idolaters. Balaam suggested making their women appear attractive to the Israelites, knowing they had a weakness for beauty. This was a recurring issue: despite their love for God, they were often led astray by women. Look closely, and you'll see that any man in Israel given a divine mission often faltered because of a woman. Read your Bible; this is not a fabrication.
I'm sharing scriptural insights. Jesus avoided intimate relationships with women but elevated them, even entrusting a woman with the message of the Bible. The devil knows what you don't. Men couldn't control their desires, causing God to withdraw. What is your secret place? Mine is love, a covenant with God. I must love even when wronged, as harboring resentment drives away God's presence. Minister Leia sought revenge, but I advised love and repentance. Love is both a weapon and a sacrifice. I choose to show love despite being hurt. God revealed secrets for ministerial success, including love. Some must exercise restraint, while others need to be open. Money should fund church projects, not be hoarded. Understand your secret; it can transform your life. Some struggle with habits like masturbation, which impacts their finances. Men often lose money because of this. Others lie about their age, causing life stagnation. Some abuse their spouses yet fear other men. Identify what's holding you back. Achieving success requires pain and self-discipline. Attending church is a commitment. May God help us in Jesus' name.
Let's go to number two for success: educational knowledge. You need to have educational knowledge in our time if you want to be successful. So, the pain of going back to school or going through school is not a bad pain. If you were not able to go before and God has privileged you now that you can go, don't consider it a waste of time. It is a good venture. Don't deny yourself that opportunity. Don't say, "No, I'm already old. How can I go back to the four walls of the classroom?" Don't say that. You even see many of us in this church have gone back to school. So, if you want to succeed, there is an educational burden and pain you must carry for that success to be achieved. I will give you another three ABCs in educational knowledge.
Firstly, it's essential to understand technology, as we are living in a technological era. You can't continue using your phone in the same way as before. Embrace this era; don't claim you're too old. God knows your age and has placed you in this technological age for a reason. Engage with technology. Don't say you don't want to use WhatsApp. All your children are on it, and families are forming groups there. If you're still using a basic phone, it's primarily for things like M-Pesa. Those who hide money often do so with basic phones, keeping them under pillows. When we check larger phones, we might not find money, but with the smaller ones, discovering hidden cash can be shocking. So, don't say you don't need to embrace technology.
If you're a young woman, unmarried, and perhaps left school without learning about technology, waiting for a husband, please go and learn about technology. The husband you marry and the children you have will need technology. Without it, you'll be at a disadvantage, unable to assist your children with their homework. Nowadays, children research using phones and computers. If you don't learn now, when your child brings a computer from school, you might mistake it for something else. In the past, computers were heavy and not expensive. They were cumbersome, like moving house. Then laptops came, heavy like iron. This year, in 2025, Minister Sam took me to the CBD. We spent nearly 350,000 to 400,000 on a laptop. I don't even have a chair worth 500,000 at home. When I heard the price, I was skeptical. We went to the store amidst tear gas, and I was coughing because I couldn't believe a computer could cost almost 400,000. I insisted on verifying the price. Technology advances through investment, not by itself. I've received the half-quarter report from all departments and have reviewed each one.
I haven't completed my research on technology because everything associated with it is costly. When you ask about prices, they mention outrageous figures like 120,000. Even purchasing a bus for our equipment was expensive, and many churches find these costs challenging. For example, we wanted to buy a screen, and when we checked the price, it was 1.8 million, which surprised us. We hope to have it ready by the time our leader visits this year.
Technology is crucial, influencing everything, including our communication. For instance, the quality of our microphones enhances our preaching. The media recommended upgrading to a new model costing between 120,000 to 280,000. Technology is advancing quickly, and even relationships are influenced by AI and robotics. Men increasingly turn to robots, underscoring the importance of understanding technology.
In healthcare, technology is revolutionizing practices, shifting from manual to automated processes. As a pastor, I advise embracing technology, as it is vital for progress. In our future church, I envision soundproofing to enhance the worship experience, making the sound immersive. Understanding technology is essential in education and daily life, as it shapes our future and spiritual experiences.
Number B education knowledge covers basic socializing skills, understanding the fundamental needs of a young girl or boy. There are what we call basics. Do you know one of the basics is the five magic words? Do you know them? Ah, you guys don't know the five magic words. Do we have a teacher here? Teacher, help us. Mhm. You see, that's the five basics of life. It's something you have to do. You must tell somebody please. You must tell somebody I'm sorry. You must tell somebody may I, excuse me. Know it because the way some of you come and take your husband's phone as if it belongs to you is troubling. Huh? You just come, take somebody's, forgive me my dear, I have manners, excuse me, I want to use your phone. You step on somebody, you say you can't see, my dear, I can see, it's you who didn't see, say sorry. Learn basic things. Another basic aspect of hygiene is waking up in the morning and brushing your teeth. Brother, sister, you have been looking for someone to kiss, have you brushed your teeth? Or the person sitting next to you is suffering. It's a basic way of life. Brush your teeth. And this is how we brush our teeth. Find basic education. Learn that you don't wear a white dress with red undergarments. Stop getting here. You know the truth. Child of God, they taught us colors. If you wear white and put red underneath, what will white do? It will expose it. If you wear yellow and put white, what will it do? If you put black inside white, what will it do? So you are wearing white. What are you supposed to wear? Am I the one who said it? Is it not our teachers? Basic knowledge. Basic knowledge has it. Don't say I am too holy, I live in the holy spirit of the holiest, my dear, come out from there and take basic knowledge and apply it. Why? Hygiene in your armpit, is it supposed to grow according to your height? It's supposed to be what? Not to mention the ones on the sides. Some of you, your spirituality will put you in trouble.
How will you explain to God why you're preserving these places? If you take it to a native doctor, they can't use it. Why are you keeping the hair? You can't even lower your hand; it's just hanging there. Because, dear wife, I know the Bible says to search. It didn't say to create a forest. It says to seek, not to find a forest. Please get a shaving stick and clear your forest. There's nothing attractive about being unkempt. Allow your husband to see what he traveled from Kiguyu to Masai to acquire. Let them see, and for the men trying to grow dreadlocks, I want you to do what other men are doing. And you're carrying dreadlocks in your locks. May God help you. Basic education: when you eat, have a balanced diet. If you eat ugali, chapati, rice, and bread, you're consuming the same food. There's no basic food there. It's just ugali, chapati, rice, then oil with color you call water, and you put it there. When you visit the doctor, they ask if you've been eating well. You've been consuming carbohydrates in different forms, and that's why some of you can never be carried by your husband. I'm already escaping. Join me in this escape. Don't you see my escape? You'll see the weight loss in due time. Don't worry. Some of us are very heavy. You eat ugali, and even it fears you because it needs a surgical method to pass your throat. After eating, you start clapping your wings so your balance. Basic understanding: we need to bathe. If you don't bathe, the only acceptable days to skip are three. After that, you're like a corpse. You all pretend like you always bathe. We're all in this battle. You say I should move forward. Oh my god. If you don't force yourself to bathe, you might end up not doing it. In July, you might enter the bathroom, remember you're alone, and sleep for the next day. When you wake up, if God blesses you with money and you have good perfume, it's part of basic knowledge to bathe, to wash our hair. Nowadays, may God help us with wigs. Did you see mine last Sunday? We're in this together. When I remove my wig, you need to be radical for Jesus. Our husbands these days, you can now shout. Men, what you're enjoying is no joke because some of us no longer pour water on our heads. But God will deliver us because it's part of bathing. I don't have natural dandruff; it's dirt. It's the truth. Didn't you see it? I opened it yesterday. I haven't styled it yet. Why? I still have it. That's why I'm looking at him. God has blessed him. Let me tell you, married men have natural blessings. What they endure from their wives and what wives endure from their husbands, only the Holy Ghost can manage. If the wife refuses to bathe, who will care for the man? It's the husband. Imagine refusing to bathe, and he has to sleep with you, and your pastor says to hug one another while sleeping. God bless the woman who says to hold him carefully. We'll keep holding each other. But if you see water, please bathe. It's part of basic knowledge. Cutting your nails, maintaining yourself. I got tired of doing it myself, so I pay for it now. How can I bend to see from here down? It's not easy. So, I pay for someone to wash from the knee to the feet. Young girls who aren't married, please try it. After marriage, you might not have the chance. Don't say you don't need it. Go for a manicure and pedicure. I was fixing nails, now I'm doing acrylic. Don't want trouble. If the man is provoked, when he sees the glitter, he will reconsider. Some battles don't need fire; just these weapons. Clap your eyes, and people say you're going to hell. Who knows what's in hell? Do they go to see? Looking good is part of good business. Many Christians lose husbands because they look unattractive. Don't join them. May God give you the wisdom to look beautiful for your husband and handsome for your wife. It is an occupation. Look beautiful. Wear good boxers. When buying boxers, check the name on them. Make sure it says Calvin Klein, Boss, or Louis Vuitton, some good names, so your days of begging can be reduced. These are complimentary motivators for express movement for those who are married. God bless you. I will soon finish. Don't worry.
Understand a part of it. Be business-oriented in your education. Study business. Learn about marketing, purchasing, and demand laws. It's important to have a business mindset. Even if you're employed, familiarize yourself with business principles. You can't work indefinitely; there's a retirement age. When you retire, having business knowledge is crucial. At some point, you'll reach an age where you won't want to constantly seek approval. Instead, venture into business, no matter how small, and understand market demands so you can supply and earn money. Without a business mindset, we won't achieve financial success, own nice cars, buy or build quality homes, or enjoy vacations. Just pray to your God. After all the struggles I've faced this year, the kind of photos I'll post in December will be astonishing. Start preparing now because when I begin sharing them, even if there are obstacles, I'll overcome them to ensure I take a vacation this year. You might not realize it, but I've fought many battles, some still ongoing. So, come December, we might wrap up early, and I might not return until the crossover. If not, I'll join via television. I've informed Minister Alia that I'm taking a vacation. I might take my family, drop them off somewhere, and continue with my husband. This marriage is still thriving by God's grace, with a wife who's active and involved in numerous projects. My husband and I deserve a break. If you're not envious, remember that this is only possible with a business. Without a business funding my vacation, asking you all for contributions would only yield minimal amounts. With such contributions, I wouldn't even afford public transport, and I intend to travel by plane. Do you understand? A business mindset is essential for planning a comfortable home. If your salary isn't sufficient, you need additional support.
Advice is essential. A Christian who chooses not to work should not expect to eat. Without a business, where will you find the means to pay tithe? How many here have paid tithe from a gift of 1,000 by giving 100 shillings? You might even tell God you had more. Learning business is part of education. There is always something in demand; supplying it will earn you money. I mentioned to my husband, or perhaps Mr. CP, how last year I began the PDJ collection. With God's grace, my first investment paid off, allowing me to continue ordering in bulk. This week, I plan to market online on TikTok. I worry if people with money will see and buy because some act as if they don't see TikTok—it's a money issue. When I had leftover funds after acquiring new items, I wondered if buying more than needed was wise since fashion changes each season. I decided to save but knew savings could be depleted, so I bought shares. I invested millions in shares, something I'd never done before, but after praying, I felt compelled to do so. Some might resist God's call to invest. I invested around 2.5 or 23 million. I initially shared this with my husband, who suggested buying a small amount. He believed God might be guiding me. Months later, I unexpectedly received 316,000 as a dividend from my shares, more than my shop's monthly sales. The shares I bought at 45 shillings are now nearly 100. I've gained nearly 300 in value. By December, I can choose to sell shares or invest in new opportunities. This profit isn't from prayer alone but from a business mindset. I boast because I've invested wisely. If you earn 1,000, think beyond immediate needs and save. Imagine if I'd invested 10 million; I'd have 20 million now. Since then, I've been researching investments constantly. I check shares for various banks because you can invest anywhere. People might think it's only divine favor, but it's a business mindset. I sold mitumba for years, but my current clientele sees it as casual wear. To stay relevant, I introduced the PDJ collection, making it desirable. We used to joke that if someone didn't find anything they liked in our shop, it was due to budget, not quality. In PDJ collection, even if you're wealthy, you'll find plenty to buy. We pray for customers because we know the issue isn't the clothes. If I hadn't transitioned from mitumba to African collection, I wouldn't be as relevant today.
If you've purchased these clothes, you're aware that wearing PDJ transforms your stride. Your clothes are nice, but PDJ adds an element of sophistication. When you wear it, it makes a statement, and your confidence becomes evident. A spiritual mentor encouraged me to launch the PDJ collection, and although I wasn't skilled in clothing design, as a Nigerian, I have a deep understanding of fabric. I decided to create a range from simple to luxurious, letting the clothes convey the message without needing words. This change in mindset is essential for achieving success. Think about what we've discussed, and we'll continue next time. Remember, success relies on knowledge, as the Bible states, "My people perish for lack of knowledge."





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